I am revamping a text convo... to evaluate some things about...my "friendship" with this person...
Me: Thanks for letting me use your tv and dvd player. Imma bring it back to you by next weekend.
T: U got a new one?
T: U went out and bought a new one?
T: Ur using (his)?
T: Nope no reason good 4 u. Hope life works for u the way you want it. As ur friend I think ur making a mistake but ur grown so good luck.
Me: Um wat?
Me: Wat are u talking about?
T: Nothing 4get it. Just give me a call b4 u do. If you wanna go 2 the gym still let me know but lets go in bk
T: Nothing forget it not my business. Its ur life
Me: Yeah. I'll let u know when I can bring it over. And u can tel me if it is a good time for u. I like going to the gym in the city..cuz its where i work.
Me: Wat? I'm talkin about a tv and u r talkin about somethin else.
Me: Sorry for wat?
T: I was talkin about where u got another one from n why ur all of a sudden giving mine back. Thats y I sed 4 get it not my business n ur life
T: It was also betta for u 2 have them cause I dnt want them in the garage
Me: As my friend I would love to hear wat u have to say. But u said u stopped tryin 2 be my friend a long time ago...even tho i never stopped trying.
Me: All u have to do is ask. I'm giving u urs back because i want to treat u better...and not come off as im using you.
T: What diff would what I think make? I keep tellin u. U do what u want.
Me: Ur rite
T: N jus because ive stopped TRYIN doesn't mean i'm not a fren when u come 2 me
Me: explain that
T: I wasn't making the extra effort 2 reach out 2 u but when u call I always there.
Me: Thank u. I appreciate it.
T: Everytime i tried 2 do "friendship" things with u it neva worked out so thats where I sed I stopped
T; Thanks jus me. Like i always tell u im not in the business of hurtin peoples feelings
Me: I am not in that business either. I just try to be honest and forgiving...
T: But in the case of u an (him). I really dnt know if you guys "working it out" but I dnt like 2 c me friends dealin (he) is cool as a fren but not 2 date
T: I always try 2 forget about things but its hard when it keeps occuring.
Me: I dont really care to talk about (him)...im talkin about u and i.
T: Me neither i was just sayin. Cause u ask as if ur unsure about my opinion n I want u 2 know that i dnt hate him. Jus think he isn't for my friend ne more.
Me: Well i'm glad that u said that. Because its obvious that there is still somethin wrong. Wat keeps occuring?
T: Back 2 u n I im really tryin 2 not care
Me: Okay. I understand that. Since that is the case then I can respect ur feelings about him and I will be cautious 4 now on.
T: Like i told u its not recently. Cept wat I told u b4. But everything is the past. We keep havin convo's ova txt n u might be misinterpreting my tone n meanin
Me: Ur trying to not care bout me and u?
T: U don't have 2 be cautious. I'm done speakin about u n him thats on u if u need 2 talk i'll always listen but hopefully u will wake up one day n it wont be 2 late cause he really is n ass n if i would tell him that if i spoke 2 him
T: No about nething that people do that bother me. I try not 2 care n continue w stayin myself
T: No I'm tryin not 2 care about everything people say n do. Jus be there when I can
T: Yeah I do care about my friends
Me: Okay so that do u call it
T: I neva sed that. Thats y i dnt wanna have these convos ova txt. U keep gettin what I say wrong. Txt isnt for real talk.
T: O. I still want 2 be friends with u. I think ur a good person.
T: Yea i'm not sure where the confusion
T: But i neva said I wasn't ur friend
T: What I sed only stated how I was feelin
T: Did you say nething 2 (Him) about ryan?
Me: Okay. Why is it a big deal? Wat is it that i did that bothered u so much?
T: U know. ne thing i sed 2 u about him
T: did u say nething about his women?
T: U sed he didn't? But ok y wat the need n tellin him about my hair? If u dont like it for yourself y do it 2 me?
T: I'm not trying 2 pic a fight
T: Well i dnt complain either.
T: I was proving a point. N it mattas if u dnt treat me the way u want 2 be treated. U could have simply sed it was me n i had a question cause the convo was about ur aunt apartment
T: tellin kemma yall breaking up o what r facts
T: ....im not bothered just want u 2 c. U getting upset with me cause i "tell" ur business but u going n doin the same. N then say shit like whats the big deal. When I know u run n tell a lot of things. It principal.
Me: Wel thats what happens when u deal with rude and disrespectful people.
Me: Watever i said to bg..wasn't going to get a negative response. U mustve been complainin to ur friends...bc they say u shouldn't be friends with me.
T: No but they probably see something I dont. I ova this convo cause its not makin a diff
Me: What diff are u trying to make?
T: Nothing dnt worry. Theres no point.
Me: Well just remember ur the 1 who is trying to make a point. And ur so quick to cal me rude and disrespectful and (him) an ass...i wonder wat it is that u call urself.